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The Disciplinarian is the most complete Spanker of Ladies in the UK !.He offers a full range of spanking including both EROTIC and PUNISHMENT Spanking
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Hi Eve, Ha I'm not surprised you are nervous. I nearly didn't go when I found out the spanking would take place in Alan's home. All sorts of nasty thoughts surfaced but I would not have missed it for the world and have in fact visited a dozen times now and have booked another session for January - I go every month now and wouldn't miss it! What can I say - like you I had never been spanked but had started to really fantasize about it and read lots of stories on yahoo and google. In fact I read every free site I could get into! On the waHi Eve! I kept telling myself I was an idiot and even took my mobile with me "just in case". When I got there I was pleasantly surprised that Alan did not jump on me but actually sat me down, gave me a coffee and we chatted quite generally for some time. I had been concerned at the length of time but the afternoon flew by and I had not realised how long I had been there! I was incredibly nervous and very adamant about what I did NOT want to happen. Going across his lap for the first time was quite embarrassing and I did wonder what on earth I was doing. But within minutes I had totally relaxed and found the experience totally different to the way I had imagined. Alan was indeed firm but also very considerate and kept asking how this felt and how that felt and was I OK. By the time it got round to having my panties lowered (something I secretly dreaded) I was so enthusiastic I helped to take them off completely (wouldn't have dreamed of that before I got there). I said to Alan quite truthfully I did not even feel naked. The spanking was surprisingly relaxing and the tension oozed out of me. Alan made me take a break and again we just sat and chatted quite naturally. For the second part Alan showed me his different implements and explained what they were used for and how. He asked if I wanted to try some. Before I went I had asked about the paddle as most stories seem to incorporate it, however, Alan himself was adamant that some of his paddles were not suitable for a first timer. I actually pouted at that, so far into the spanking I now was. The different implements all had a very different feel which I had not realised. Some I loved instantly, some I wasn't sure of and two I knew immediately I just could not handle. Alan was very encouraging but, true to his word stopped immediately when I said I did not like the strap and medium cane. He has never asked me to try either again. Surprisingly I loved a short whip (martinet) he had instantly. If you had told me I would enjoy being whipped I would have told you you were mad but I did! Alan again took charge and told me I had had enough of the implements for the first visit and we had another rest and another coffee. Then for the third part we went back to the hand spanking which I thoroughly enjoyed. By the end I was surprisingly relaxed and a little overwhelmed by the whole afternoon. Before I visited I bombarded Alan with questions and a list of DON'Ts! But I need not have worried. At no time did I feel in any way threatened or taken advantage of. Alan was enthusiastic and firm but constantly asked how I felt, what did this feel like, what did that feel like etc. He never attempted to do anything without outlining it first. I had fantasised about giving over control totally (your fantasy willprobably be different) and said I thought I would cry from the release of emotion. Well I did cry - tears of joy and sadness that I hadn't had the nerve to go before.The other visits have built on the first and on all occasions Alan was a perfect gentleman. He has always taken the trouble to email or phone first and outline roughly what he intends to happen. I have not been made to feel forced to try anything and have actually been asked NOT to until I have built up my experience over two instruments. Before I went the first time I had all kinds of ideas of what it would be like but honestly the whole experience is way beyond anything I expected. After each visit I have an aura of calmness for around a week and then I am eager to set another date!!! The first time my bottom smarted and glowed (not unpleasantly) for about 24 hours - just enough to be able to feel it. Alan emailed and asked me to ring the next day and we talked through the whole experience. From that conversation he laid the groundwork for the next visit and so on. If I have a question or concern I email Alan and he tries to reply by the next day or invites me to telephone. He is very discreet and again never pressurises me to phone but gives me 2 or 3 times when he will be around and it is up to me to decide. The examples on his website are very accurate I think. He discusses in detail what kind of spanking I want and then surpasses my expectation. For example, I personally, have no interest in "punishment" spankings and Alan has never suggested anything like that since I told him this. On the second and particularly the third visit I was so relaxed and willing to let Alan control everything I think it surprised him it did me. The sessions have all been undertaken at quite a leisurely pace and I have come to trust Alan when he thinks I need to rest and when he thinks I am ready to resume. I can honestly tell you that I wish I had gone to him years ago. I fthere is anything else I can tell you please let me know. I do hope you go and have as much enjoyment as I do! Good luck Take care. M?????????? |
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Dear Alan, I thought I would drop you a line over my visit and to confirm I will be in touch shortly for a further one. Let me say that you gave me EXACTLY what I required and were very professional about the whole experience. I never in my life dreamed I would find myself naked over a spanking bench. Let me begin at the beginning. When I telephoned and explained to you that I was a senior executive with a major company and that although I expected discipline from my staff I lacked it myself and need somebody to take control of me - something nobody in my organsisation can do - you were not surprised as this was a familiar scenario !.You agreed to see me and discuss the problem When I arrived I was pleasantly surprised to see how informal you were. I had seen pictures of 'Mistresses' in their leather and thought you may be the same. However after a short chat you explained quite clearly how the session would proceed and we started. Again I was surprised that you did not produce the cane but for thirty minutes or more you handspanked me first over my skirt, then lifting my skirt and finally removing my knickers. I found this very relaxing although it was embarrassing. What i liked was that you had taken charge and were in total control but strangely I was not worried about it and found I trusted you implicitely. We then had a rest and I confessed some of my problems. You showed interest but were never judgemental. Now it was time for the rest of the session. You told me to go into your office, stand by the spanking bench and wait. I was naked below the waist but, strangely, no longer felt embarrassment. I bent over the bench and after some preliminary handspanking to, as you, explained, warm my bottom up again you started. It was quite a shock after the handspanking to hear the strap whistle down and connect with my buttocks. The pain was sharp and went though me. You massaged my bottom and then continued for I guess (you never told me) twenty or thirty stokes acroos both buttocks. I found it very hard to accept and wanted to tell you to stop but pride I guess prevented me. You then inspected and massaged my bum before you took up the cane. Just to hear it whistling through the air terrified me but I had asked for it and now would receive it. It is difficult to explain that first stroke. It felt as though a fiery bar had been laid across my bum cheeks and I cried out. You warned me that any sound and the stroke would not count. As you got into a rhythm I found that each stroke was laid above or below the previous one. The pain was excruciating but I knew I deserved it and was prepared to accept whatever you gave. I was not sure how many strokes you would give me but gritted my teeth and suffered. Eventually you stopped and told me to stand go to the corner and stop there with my hands on my head. I went as instructed and stood there for ten minutes with my buttocks throbbing while you did other things. Then it was the end and you took me back to the sofa and laying me across your lap again massaged baby oil into my buttocks. Wow ! that was a fantastic relief ! After I dressed and as I was leaving I knew I would return. After I arrived home I stripped and looked at my bottom. The lines were superbly laid - although I didn't think so at the time. When I went into the office the next day and sat down it gave me reminders when I was going to speak sharply to my staff. Best wishes and looking forward (?) to my next visit F??????????????? |
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