Who is The Disciplinarian
and why Spanking Stories?
Who I am
My name is Alan and I live in East Anglia.
For over 15 years I have been involved in dealing out corporal punishment to ladies - spanking - on a consensual basis.
The advent of the Internet enabled me to offer my services through a new medium which has proved very successful
My Background in Spanking
I have been a member of the 'Scene' for many years and used to visit spanking clubs regularly. Here men meet with up to six paid 'subs' who have a scenario produced for them by the group organiser. It may be nurses smoking/stealing drugs or school scenarios. I soon found that many of the men participants had little idea of what to do when spanking each girl with their hand, strap, paddle and cane. How hard,and where and when to hit ,had to be spelt out to them. I found the club experience artificial and sterile giving little pleasure either to the spankers or spankees. After I had chatted to several of the 'subs' I decided I would prefer a 1-2-1 session and spoke to the club organiser who arranged with me to meet with 'M'. She was a professional 'sub' although she could also act as a 'domme' if requested and she agreed to meet me.
This was more expensive for me but I was able to 'study' with an 'expert' and perfect my own style. I then discovered that it was almost impossible to understand what was happening without 'switching' and being spanked myself. I am not a natural switch but soon found that my time with 'M' had fired me to produce a website which would help and advise potential spankers and spankees. I went on visiting 'M' every month for nearly two years until a rail strike prevented me from continuing. She recommended 'K' who lived closer to me.
'K' visited every month for a further year or more and all the time I was getting better in my style and more accurate in my spanking and my website was improving in style and content. Talking to these ladies had also helped me to have an insight into their needs and problems.
Once the site became active I soon found that I was receiving emails from all over the world with requests for help, and advice, and from the UK with requests to visit me.
About 12 years ago a lady requested a visit to be spanked and this began a long experience with meeting ladies and their partners and fulfilling their needs.
Why should you come to me?
Once I started the website I found that there were a number of ladies who wanted to try corporal punishment but, for various reasons, mainly their inability to find a confidential service, had given up. Once they contacted me and had discussed their wants for many their interest was rearoused.
Why were they interested?
There were a variety of reasons including:
They had been spanked when a child when they did wrong and now needed the security of this form of punishment when they did something they considered wrong as an adult.
They were senior professionals who had the ability to hire and fire but could not be called to account when punishing juniors. This was their way of assuaging their guilt when they felt they had been unjust.
They had never been smacked on the bottom or punished with a slipper, strap or cane but wanted to try the experience.
They knew they were submissive but had never had the chance to test this side of themselves.
They have a partner who is not interested
They wanted to ask their partner to spank them but thought it would be a good idea to discover whether they REALLY wanted it in 'cold blood' before raising the question. With me they could stand up at any time a walk away whereas with a partner if they discovered they didn't enjoy being spanked and their partner did it was too late to withdraw.
They had experimented when younger and enjoyed it but now wanted to extend their experience beyond handspanking and the paddle - possibly to the strap and eventually the cane.
Some clients enjoy "roleplay" as part of their experience. There is more about this in our What Happens pages. For some ladies reading spanking stories gave them thoughts about what a spanking, particularly an erotic spanking, would be in reality rather than fantasy. Older ladies single, and married, who had passed the menopause found they wanted to try knew things. For some it was meeting, visiting gymnasia, or whatever but for some it was to explore their sensuality. Another group were those who were happily married but by the age of fortyfive or fifty found that their sensuality was being stiffled. A busy husband who may only offer perfunctory sex once a fortnight or less. Not enough for a lady who now had more freedom as their children had grown up and left. Surfing the internet these are the main group of visitors. They enjoy the stories and want to try for themselves. For more about this read our pages on "Sensuous and Erotic Spanking" and "Punishment Spanking Examples"
Members of all of these groups have visited at one time or another. The largest number being in the 40 -60 year old group. For many their worry was that they were either too fat, too old or had never ben spanked before, I point out that I have worked with ladies from 7 stone to 26 stone and 25 to 65 years and the only criteria is "do you want to be spanked?". If the answer is yes then come !
Why not send an email to alan@spanking-stories.co.uk or call me on 07854 153499 so that we can discuss your wishes further. Remember everything is confidential and done with discretion. It is also always within the limits of the client although I decide the level from my years of experience..
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An Invitation to Ladies needing a Spanking
Whether you are a novice or experienced you should visit me for a private session. All visits are PRIVATE and CONFIDENTIAL. If you click on the picture of a BOTTOM on the left you will be taken to the special page which explains what happens.
As one lady wrote "I?I've enjoyed both of my visits to you, especially the last one and if you are available this Sunday or next I would really like to come over..........What I feel I need most at the moment is the spanking and maybe along the lines of a long (but not necessarily hard) punishment. I think the length of the punishment and feeling you are in control (by what you say and make me do) is probably more important for me than the hardness of the punishment....................
I enjoyed the more intimate touching last time we met and would be more than happy for this to happen again, if you are. It had been a couple of years since I was last touched in that way and it surprised me how different my orgasms were. In some ways they were less intense than they use to be, but in some ways more enjoyable."
Read our pages on "Sensuous and Erotic Spanking"
and
"Punishment Spanking Examples"
CALL 07854 153 499 or send an email to alan@thedisciplinarian.com (ladies or couples only please) |
My Spanking Examples and Stories
I soon found that people were interested to read about examples of ladies and couples who had visited as they felt that they were not alone and it not only reinforced their determination but showed the way to its fulfillment. No example is shown without the express permission of the lady/couple involved and, as I always change the names, this has never been refused.
Over the years I have had many ladies and couples visiting and I found that some of what happened in private could never be quoted as an 'example' so I began writing stories. My first venture was School of Discipline but eventually this came to a natural end and I started on my Spanking Short Stories. Some people tell me that they can find examples of what happened to them in the stories while others use them as a basis for their visit.
My stories have now become integral to my whole website and I try to have a range of them being worked on at a time. Because of this I usually have modern and regency stories running at the same time. If you watch the Home page you will see that i always list
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